As a child, I would look forward to the draw for the FA Cup third round. This was when the big boys would enter the competition, when non-league teams could be drawn against Manchester United or Liverpool and when my dreams for Sunderland to reach Wembley began.
My first memories of the FA Cup are from the 1989-90 season as a six year-old and I was hooked. I remember watching an unbelievable semi-final between Manchester United and Oldham Athletic that ended 3-3 after extra-time, followed by an even more extraordinary semi-final between Liverpool and Crystal Palace. Liverpool had beaten The Eagles 9-0 previously in the season and were considered overwhelming favourites. However, Crystal Palace produced a shock and won 4-3 after extra-time. The final was as thrilling as the semi-finals, with a Manchester United-Crystal Palace final ending 3-3 after extra-time. Although the replay didn't match the previous encounter or come close to the semi-finals, I was in love with the FA Cup.
Two years later and my love of the FA Cup was cemented - Sunderland had made it to Wembley. Although we didn't win, I loved every minute of the cup run. It wasn't just about football, it was about a city coming together, to unite and celebrate their team achieving something against the odds. We were a second division team playing against the mighty Liverpool and we fell short of the ultimate prize. I was heartbroken but I still loved the FA Cup.
I think the 1992 FA Cup final between Sunderland and Liverpool was significant in the history of the competition and where it is today simply because of the year it occurred.
The season after and the Premier League was created. Sky television changed the way clubs and supporters thought of the FA Cup. The vast amounts of money available to Premier League clubs through television money led more and more to place top-flight survival above trying to win the FA Cup.
Although we've seen some magical moments in the FA Cup since 1992, more clubs, including Sunderland, are sending out their reserve teams when playing FA Cup ties. This has resulted in attendances for cup competitions dwindling and the so-called 'Big Four' having a stranglehold on the competition.
The number of fans attending FA Cup matches at their clubs is dwarfed in comparison to their league attendances.
Sunderland's average attendance this season is 39,538. However, in the two games they've played at home in the FA Cup this season they've attracted 20,685 and 22,634. This is happening at the majority of clubs in England, especially clubs in the top two divisions of England.
But, you can't blame the fans for not wanting to pay money to watch their team put out a second-string team against another team who'll be doing the same.
Sunderland had an excellent opportunity to progress to the quarter-finals of this season's competition when they were drawn against lower league opposition, Coventry City, at home in the fifth round.
First of all, they had to overcome Blackburn Rovers in a replay at Ewood Park. Sunderland manager, Ricky Sbragia, decided to rest a number of his best players, including Djbril Cisse and Kenwyne Jones. We were knocked out of the competition and an opportunity to win some silverware and get into Europe was put to bed for another year.
Some fans berated Sbragia for not taking the competition seriously whilst others argued that the Club should concentrate on ensuring Premier League survival and that an early exit in the FA Cup could be the difference in maintaining our top-flight status.
Although it's understandable for managers and fans to class Premier League survival as more important than a cup run, it's a sad state of affairs that the reason they do so is because of the financial implications involved in relegation from the Premier League.
Pre-1992 and the injection of cash into the Premier League, a cup run would never have been considered a distraction. The success of the Premier League has caused the FA Cup to lose its appeal to the clubs and lose its magic to the fans.
When compared to what the FA Cup winners receive in prize money, you can understand why some clubs see finishing fourth from bottom in the Premier League as a much greater objective.
So, what can be done to recapture the magic of the FA Cup? A small step was taken last year when unfancied Portsmouth won the trophy. A sign that you didn't have to be Arsenal, Liverpool, Manchester United or Chelsea to win it. Personally, I think that was a once in a decade occurrence, a bit like Everton's shock win over Manchester United in the 1995 final.
French footballing legend and UEFA president, Michel Platini, suggested the winner's of the competition should gain a place in the Champions League, thus, reducing the number of league entrants from the Premier League from four to three. I actually agree with this move but I don't think it will ever work due to the power of the big clubs. Also, there's the possibility of English entrants in the competition being ridiculous.
Can you imagine Milwall winning a place in the Champions League due to making it to the FA Cup final in 2004 where they played Manchester United, who'd already qualified for Europe's premier competition? However, if we'd have beaten Milwall in the semi-final and reached the final, my opinion might be different!
To get round this, maybe the runners-up of the FA Cup could play the team who finishes fourth in the Premier League in a play-off for the final Champions League spot.
Unfortunately, I can't see the FA Cup ever regaining its popularity when there's a league that creates such a fine line between financial stability and insecurity on the basis of relegation from the top-flight.
Clubs involved in a relegation battle will continue to focus on staying in the Premier League, Sunderland being one of them. I don't think fans can blame clubs for concentrating on their league status when there's millions of pounds at stake. If they want to blame anyone, blame the Premier League.
My childhood memories of the FA Cup were wonderful experiences. I'm not too sure if the FA Cup will have the same effect on today's six year-olds.