Today I'm going to step away from the subject of City and talk about the death of German national keeper Robert Enke. As is now well known the Hannover 96 net minder was killed by a train near his home on Tuesday evening. All indications are that the 32 year old committed suicide having left a note to that effect.
Depression is a very much misunderstood condition. It is portrayed, wrongly, as though the person is "feeling down" and "sad" and that really all they need to do is buck up their ideas and get on with their life.
That Enke feared his daughter would be taken away from him because of the disease is endemic of the lack of knowledge that the general public have about the disease.
Moreover there is a school of thought and reaction that highly paid people can't be depressed because they have financial success. Nothing could be further than the truth. Depression, true clinical depression, is utterly debilitating. It is a mental disease caused, so the latest thinking goes, by both natural chemical imbalances in the brain and possibly gene related. It is not something that can be wished away through strength of spirit and purpose.
It impacts individuals, and those that love them, constantly.
Enke had been treated for depression since 2003. That he was able to function at such a high level professionally yet have such utter despair and hopelessness personally is unfortunately part of the nature of depression. It's easy to accept that someone is ill when they have a disease and are confined to a bed. It is so much harder to accept that someone is seriously ill when they can appear so normal some of the time.
My sympathies and prayers to his widow Teresa and daughter Leila and I commend her for speaking about the subject so soon after her husband's passing.
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Posted by Jon on 11/11/2009
Too true, Wallace. RIP Robert Enke. Hopefully there is better beyond this life for you.
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Posted by StacySkyBlueLad on 11/11/2009
Very well said and a classy post ........
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Posted by Bulman on 11/12/2009
An excellent post Wallace. My wife has suffered from depression for many years and your points are all spot on. I feel sad for the whole family.
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Posted by Mr Factual on 11/12/2009
Excellent post, well put, RIP Robert Enke.
This helps to illustrate our footballing heroes are real people, they often struggle to perform for us with underlying injuries and illness, in great pain and frustration which we aren't aware of.
Next time one of our lads is having an off day/month, think twice before slating them publicly, who's to say what they're suffering from for the club?
I'm sure the vast majority of players from all leagues would never give anything other than their best, and feel hurt when they perform below par - they don't do it on purpose, to suggest they do is plain wrong.
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Posted by AlexC83 on 11/12/2009
I was critical of your post the other day but I can give credit where it is due: This is an excellent, thoughtful post.
Posted by Mike T on 11/12/2009
Very good article, I myself suffered one very bad spell of depression and it came back and nearly claimed my life.
I understand this condition and it so difficult to describe as you can't just pick yourself up.
I came through it and have been clear of depression for over 5 years now.
I feel sad for the guys family.
Posted by Gazinio on 11/12/2009
Well Put Wallace,
RIP Robert Enke, its a sad sad day for the world of football!
Gary Owen
Manchester
Wallace Reply And for those of you wondering, no not that Gary Owen
Posted by Samuel obasi on 11/13/2009
Sadly, a great hero passed on during the golden period of his illustrious career. May God console his people especially his family and grant his soul eternal rest. He will be rembered by Germans and soccer fans globally.
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